I’m constantly disappointed in my kid and just want to give up.

[MunchausenByProxy]

I don’t have a kid so I don’t have much room to talk but I would say don’t overdo it. You don’t want every day to be about getting tough and being manly like it’s the only thing that matters or you’ll just send him the other way like Anthony’s dad. You said you see him every day so there’s still hope. Just set a good example, talk about stuff, be kind but don’t let him do whatever he wants, there has to be discipline, and don’t badmouth his mom to him as much as you want to. That shit never works and kids always figure out what’s what when they get older.

Exactly. My dad quietly set a good example, and it took years for it to sink in but just by growing up around him, I picked up his behavior when I became an adult without even realizing it.

 

[guest]

I’m a little hammered right now so I will probably delete this, but he threw a fit and had to leave camp. He couldn’t tough it out and make it one week? He never wants to do anything that challenges him.

His mother has made him a soft faggot. He copies her in every way. Won’t take a shit except in his own house, afraid of spiders, all this faggot shit. All he wants to do is be at her house where she doesn’t make him do anything, he eats pancakes AND ice cream every single day, and they lay on the couch and watch TV in between him playing video games.

Of course I make him exercise with me and eat healthy, practice music and a second language, have actual values and try to be a success in life, so he fucking hates staying with me. My main fear is that by the time he realizes his mother is a zero ambition whooooooooore he will already be the same thing.

Anyway I hate women. Hope everyone has a good Fourth of July weekend.

Spiders are kinda weird but you have my sympathies, brothaman.

 

[guest]

You can't force him out of being a faggot. Gotta just make your own life good and let him make his own faggot mistakes. It'll take years, maybe a decade or two. But just give up. The faggot will come around after he gets a lil taste (lil taste) of pain. Or he'll become Paul Weimer. In which case you should take him out back and crush his skull with a brick.

 

[guest]

Maybe he’s disappointed in you too, it’s a two way street.

 

[Guest]

Maybe he’s disappointed in you too, it’s a two way street.

that’s a good point.

I think I just wanted him to have a different life than I did. I had to figure everything out on my own the hard way, and it almost killed me.

I’m not gonna give up on parenting my kid, but I think I have to start meeting him where actually is instead of expecting him to miraculously rise to every challenge. I’m never gonna be able to “compete” with ice cream, pancakes, and unlimited screen time but I can continue to set a different example.

Thanks faggots, appreciate the feedback on my mega faggoty post.

 

[Snake]

 

[Punished Dan Mullen]

how fat is the little fella? fatter than boomia's?

 

[Guest]

how fat is the little fella? fatter than boomia's?

Nah I make him run with me constantly.

 

[Guest]

[URL='https://imgbb.com/']

[/URL]

This is my fucking fear

 

[BillyCorgan'sFallenTree]

You really need to show him Patrick and tell him that's what his future is. When he's at you're house you tell him no internet unless it's Literary Criticism.

 

[guest]

no internet unless it's Literary Criticism.

Yeah, that will make him a good functioning member of society, lol. Keep your son as far away from this place as possible.

 

[BillyCorgan'sFallenTree]

Yeah, that will make him a good functioning member of society, lol. Keep your son as far away from this place as possible.

Lit Crit is basically scared straight for white kids.

 

[Chive Turkey]

I’m not gonna give up on parenting my kid, but I think I have to start meeting him where actually is instead of expecting him to miraculously rise to every challenge. I’m never gonna be able to “compete” with ice cream, pancakes, and unlimited screen time but I can continue to set a different example.

This is the best course of action. Be a dad, not a drill sergeant. Don't give up on trying to discipline and toughen up your kid, just instill them in a smarter way. Make work play and shit like that.

In any case, little kids are faggots by default. Teenagers are faggots by default too. It's only once they start reaching adulthood that people really come into their own, and that's when a solid base of good parenting will pay off and they'll realize how fucking valuable it actually is.

 

[TheGhostOfAbeVigoda]

I thought for sure most of my cousins' sons would turn out to be faggots or school shooters based on how they acted as young kids. All but one have kind of just evolved out of the pussy shit. Even the ones with pussy dads. I think it depends a lot on their friends. The one that is still a bitch never really had any friends and is babied by his grandparents to a weird degree.

I had my moments as a kid too. I went to some Christian camp with my buddy once as a kid and I got kicked out because I didn't want to play baseball so I put my mattress in the rafters and stayed behind in the bunkhouse thing and caught the people running it going through kids' bags while they were out.

I also remember how proud my dad was when I told him I wanted to play football. He signed me up that year and the first actual practice with pads and everything, I didn't have a football jersey. I had to wear one of my dad's Bruins jerseys. Someone was immediately like "we're playing football, bud." just jokingly, but I had like a weird panic attack, went back to my dad's car and was like "I need to leave, I'm gonna freak out."

He was a lot cooler about it than I thought he would be. He took me home but I could tell he was disappointed as all fuck. I was way too old to be acting like that too. Like grade six. He had to give me a "You can't quit. You have to try." lecture and I ended up actually being pretty good and enjoying it and played through highschool.

 

[Gay Faggot.]

Take the kid fishing, I assume that helps. Never got the experience…..sniff.

 

[handsomeblue]

Eh it's a tough one man
He's still a kid and it's OK for kids to be a little fruity, it took me until 17 to change gears from baby boy to actual tough guy.
His fear comes from not knowing/understanding the cursed world around him and relying on womanly comforts, just try help clarify things to him about life that it may ease him out of his safe zone.

1 Corinthians 13:11
“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.”

 

[Riccardo Bosi]

Once he has a full-time job and realises that life is gay and meaningless, he'll become responsible. I guess.

 

[Stent]

I was way too old to be acting like that too.

 

[guest]

If it makes you feel any better, there were countless times in my childhood that my dad thought I was a huge pussy and was disappointed as hell in me. I would cry like a bitch every time I lost a wrestling match. Total pissy eyed faggot, but as I grew up I turned out alright. He also put me through a storm door once for being late to dinner so you may have to put in the dirty work to achieve results. Not sure if you have that in you.

This OP. I was bobby hill. Now look at me. Im da joker baby!

 

[Ha Ha Ha Holeee Shit!]

There’s some real solid advice in this thread so I don’t have much to add. Basically love him and raise him up as opposed to knocking him down. Find something you both can take part in that he enjoys and make it a weekly or monthly routine.

Someone mentioned martial arts, that’s always good. It has physical fitness, self defense and they also teach respect and discipline.

If sports are not his thing that’s ok too. Maybe he likes the arts. See if he wants to take up an instrument. Hell, he very well might be the next Brother Joe.