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How to cope as an incel?

DeadWithoutMyDavid

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I cut myself and cried three times yesterday and fell asleep and please don't spam 'Just get laid' cause that is not a possibility.

I live in a muzzie third world shithole as a non muzzie minority so even if some woman likes me, it wouldn't work out.

They would simply put me in jail or demolish my parent's house, that's how it works here. VPNs are not banned yet but they will be anyday.

And yes this is my diary posting and I am spamming offtopic, so @Cugine please free to mock me.

The only cope I could find was learn songs by ear. I learned all the chords, , guitar fillers, verse, chorus, bridge and guitar solo of this song below yesterday.

It was pretty cool. I know it is an easy song but still I felt good about myself for a minute or two.


I still don't understand the problem. You're not allowed to date the majority, ok, but why can't you within your group? Are you from the Uggo Tribe and they're just all pigs or something?
 

gassers

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but why can't you within your group? Are you from the Uggo Tribe and they're just all pigs or something?
We are bit of a pariah in our community, and I don't want to get married for life, and divorce here is bigger headache than getting married.

I don't believe in arrange marriages anyways.

It's fine tbh. It's not that big of a deal as I have imagined in my mind.
 

RoTheHo69

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The most successful people half the time started from a very dark place (alcoholism, death, etc). Not sure how old you are, but it's completely normal for a man to get barely anything until he has spent many years building up his success. We live in an age where if you don't get pussy for a month, you're considered a loser. You need to be willing to go years in monk mode if necessary and build yourself up before chasing pussy. And definitely stay away from incel forums/youtube videos and other downer shit.
 

Billy Hollywood

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The barriers of entry in my profession are really high, similiar to a doctor, and I have certs, even a master's deg. I am currently working on getting my license. It will take time as I said 3 to 4 years.
Are you a veterinarian, dentist, nurse or a lawyer? How come you have a master's degree and are still unlicensed? If you need to do a residency at a hospital, keep in mind that once you move to another country, you will need to do it all over again so, you might as well just move already and go for it! Maybe try a place in a foreign University as an exchange student or intern, have a look at the Erasmus program. A lot of times you can even get a host family to help with your living arrangements.
 
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We are bit of a pariah in our community, and I don't want to get married for life, and divorce here is bigger headache than getting married.

I don't believe in arrange marriages anyways.

It's fine tbh. It's not that big of a deal as I have imagined in my mind.
You are Indonesian (majority Muslim) but your family is Christian converts or from one of dem non-Muslim minority groups.

You live in Dubai, Abu Dhabi, or Sharjah (UAE)

You will never migrate to a place like Canada because you dont have enough (qualifications/credentials/experience/savings/familial connections) to be eligible for a residency permit (the same barriers exist for you obtaining a US green card).

You are not in a conflict zone (UAE/The Gulf) to qualify for asylum. You can try the LGBT-persecution route, but I doubt you are that desperate (maybe you are? Anyway there are alot of fake homo refugees here).

Enjoy the baby noise advice and banter ITT, but I have ya figured out gassers, more than anyone else...just go to Indonesia or the Philippines, and find yourself one of them East Timorese or Christian Indoneians...or a Filipino girl who will appreciate the standard of living improvements you can provide.

The Gulf Arab states do immigration right, they want you there adding value to their economy, they dgaf about your social dynamics, but you have no one but yourself to blame for being weak, more so for this masochist need to broadcast your weaknesses to strangers.
 

gassers

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Are you a veterinarian, dentist, nurse or a lawyer?
Yeah, pretty similar to these.

keep in mind that once you move to another country, you will need to do it all over again so, you might as well just move already and go for it!
I am aware, that's why I have opted for a international qualification that is more euro/western based. Instead of my domestic national qualification.
 
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