How to cope as an incel?

[gassers]

Coptic Christian in Egypt?

Catholic in Malaysia?

You're fluent in English. You're in a shithole Muslim majority country. Your first priority should be doing whatever it takes to get out of there.

Use whatever incel hate that's burning in your heart and accept that you'll never get a woman until you've emigrated to Australia, or Britain, or Canada, or whatever western nation both meets your life goals while still being realistically achievable in the short-to-medium term.

Then just research, make a plan, and do whatever it takes. Whether that's going back to school, saving up money, whatever. Work towards it, let it fuel you. Eventually you'll get to the west, start earning western salaries, fuck a low-status female or a prostitute, and realize that sex is extremely overrated, but you'll have secured a much better life for yourself in the process.

Become the most successful incel in history, do whatever it takes.

I am working on it, but it takes time and immigrating from a third world shithole is a long term thing.

Trust me, I am building my resume for that.

 

[Dougie's Hapa Daughter]

I am working on it, but it takes time and immigrating from a third world shithole is a long term thing.

Trust me, I am building my resume for that.

Then keep grinding. Turn your sadness to hate, your hate to anger, and your anger to motivation. You think it's hard now? If you were fucking a girl, she would be actively sabotaging your efforts. Concentrate, work on yourself. Temporary work visas are infinitely easier to get for most countries, so imagine being fit, well groomed, personable, and with some money saved up in your new country. Imagine how much easier it will be to get a green card or PR or whatever if you can just meet and marry a woman in the west rather than trying to haul over your wife from Durkadurkastan. Use that and fucking grind grind grind.

Every time being an incel bothers you, use the energy to do something to improve your progress, whether that's studying, or applying, or researching, or whatever. You've been without pussy for however many years now, so say to yourself that you're going to set yourself up for success so that you'll be slaying it in 3 or however many years, and work your ass off towards that shit. Get a second degree, get a masters degree, get difficult certs or licenses, whatever it takes. There's always something you could be doing to improve your odds.

 

[gassers]

Temporary work visas are infinitely easier to get for most countries, so imagine being fit, well groomed, personable, and with some money saved up in your new country. Imagine how much easier it will be to get a green card or PR or whatever if you can just meet and marry a woman in the west rather than trying to haul over your wife from Durkadurkastan.

I have looked into it seriously and even paid money for the immigration consulting, again it is very difficult to get one if you are from a third world muzzie shithole, it takes serious money and skills, and I am actively working on it, it will take me 3 to 4 years but I will get there.

Get a second degree, get a masters degree, get difficult certs or licenses, whatever it takes. There's always something you could be doing to improve your odds.

The barriers of entry in my profession are really high, similiar to a doctor, and I have certs, even a master's deg. I am currently working on getting my license. It will take time as I said 3 to 4 years.

Edit: Thanks for your insightful post, appreciate it.

 

[aRTie02150]

Why don't you just hope on one of those boats that leave those countries 200x a day and end up in France or Italy

 

[gassers]

Why don't you just hope on one of those boats that leave those countries 200x a day and end up in France or Italy

Seasickness.

 

[Consensual Rapist]

You should continue to learn songs. Any time you feel shitty and wanting to cut yourself, just start practicing a song. Turn that misery into something better. Don’t cut yourself bud, that won’t solve anything, and you’ll just freak your parents out.

 

[chocolatehellhole]

 

[Harry Powell]

I have looked into it seriously and even paid money for the immigration consulting, again it is very difficult to get one if you are from a third world muzzie shithole, it takes serious money and skills, and I am actively working on it, it will take me 3 to 4 years but I will get there.



The barriers of entry in my profession are really high, similiar to a doctor, and I have certs, even a master's deg. I am currently working on getting my license. It will take time as I said 3 to 4 years.

Edit: Thanks for your insightful post, appreciate it.

What’s ur profession? No one here is interested in doxing and ruining The life of a suicidal 3rd world incel. Just tell us.

Also do you really play magic the gathering? I have the sickest fucking commander deck

 

[Meownaw]

Seasickness.

More like C Sickness! Hammmmmmmburger

 

[Sue Lightning]

What do you even want? Just sex? If so even prostitution isn’t worth this. Sex is nothing if you’re not having it with someone you care about. At that point you might as well just jerk off and skip having to feel insecure or worrying about another person involved.

if you want a relationship thats understandable because everyone craves intimacy. But knowing some incels the problem they have is they try to get into relationships but are just thinking about sex and their lack of it way too much. Women are like fucking mind readers and they’re going to tell what you want based on how you approach them and your attitude.

I’m not going to bullshit you and say women don’t care about looks. They do the same as men care how a woman looks. But look around brother. I do everyday and all I see are beautiful or average women with some of the ugliest fucking guys ever…either complete wimps, losers, nerds, douchebags, dead beats, crackheads, whatever. My perspective as someone who’s been in and out of relationships. When I was young I assumed women wanted some genetic specimen. Jacked and 6 feet tall with some super model face. Then when I got older I realized this wasn’t the case because my skinny midget ass was still getting women. And I didn’t get these women until I stopped being a depressed piece of shit. Another perspective. When I was younger and single my insecurity would radiate. Then when I would get into a relationship this insecurity would fade and magically women would be attractive to me. I realized if you just carry yourself like you’re a hot awesome guy they will be dumb enough to think you’re just like that. Women don’t want a brooding Jim Norton creep worm. They want an Opie.

The only other thing I can say if sex and a relationship are literal impossibilities…just stop caring so much. That’s easy to say but think about what worth pussy will even bring to you. Will it make you feel better about yourself? Because you got a notch in? Because you know what it feels like? What else could you be doing in that time that would improve your life in vastly better ways. Women are literal fucking headaches. All the time I spent dating and fucking women could have been spent doing a thousand other more productive things and saying “Well I did fuck her and she was hot!” doesn’t make it worth it in my mind.

Hang in there Gassers…we’re rooting for you

 

[1950'sSpaceProgram]

1. Lift
2. Drink more water
3. Most importantly, get some fucking sunlight

People always forget the fucking sunlight.

 

[LiberalPussy]

Just accept that failures like you were meant to be alone and mocked by people like me while I sit back and eat fine dining with a woman who actually wants to be with me. Something you will never know, you eternal victim.

 

[HH Brother]

1. Lift
2. Drink more water
3. Most importantly, get some fucking sunlight

People always forget the fucking sunlight.

 

[RapistWithHIV]

Wait, you're really a muzzie from the 3rd world? How did you end up here?

 

[Leonard Rhomberg]

You’re payin for sex whether you hire a prostitute or get married hehehe right fellas

 

[guest]

I was an incel for like like three years, then my preschool teacher got hold of me.

 

[chocolatehellhole]

I was an incel for like like three years, then my preschool teacher got hold of me.

Were you raped by your linguistics teacher perchance?

 

[Turk February]

move

 

[LockedHDD__Pot]

I read your post & you seem depressed (Duh! I know)

Why so fatalistic? I accept the odds seem against you but you could focus on what you CAN do; you've learned guitar & playing music is great, it's also an attractive quality.
Lots of decent sensitive people are getting blackpilled these days, which means if you can break out of it then the odds are better for you because you're not competing against those other 'incels'.

Hope you feel better soon!

 

[Agent Smith]

Sex is nothing if you’re not having it with someone you care about.

No, it's still really good.