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WWAW your best friend dying unexpectedly?

BonnieMcFarlaneMe2

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Lamont & Tonelli said:
This is the way. Start dropping hints, maybe 'forget' to zip your fly or buckle your belt a couple times, either she'll put the distance there or you can get some of that sweet sweet mourning MILF ass. Maybe the dad will want to watch.
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This is the only good advice in this thread.
 
chocolatehellhole

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Juschippinyababe said:
He's absolutely smiling down on ya and watching over you
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Nick_1989 said:
My best friend of 25 years died last year unexpectedly. My wife and I handled all the funeral, memorial, estate arrangements for his parents. We even did a quick clean of his place to remove anything embarrassing before his family got in there. I actually got the call from the morgue so I had to be the one to tell his mom, dad & older brother. We live in the same neighborhood as his parents so I’ve been very good about going over to their house and hanging out with them at least 1-2 times per week for the last year.

Thinking I need to pull back a little bit from the family so they can learn to process- ex. I watch South Park with his mom for a bit every Sunday because she likes the show, they used to do that together & she can’t watch it alone without getting very upset. For anyone who has gone through something similar, any advice here?

Also, if anyone is in the market for a new best friend- I enjoy mountaineering, Jiu Jitsu, drinking, shit posting about a certain morbidly obese science non fiction author, and traveling. Plus, if you die unexpectedly I’ll take care of everything.
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My best friend's kid died five years ago, 23 years old, fentanyl. Only child. The kid was a friend too, like a nephew and even like a little brother. And my best friend and I have known one another since we were eight. And I've known his wife since they first met when they were 16. In a situation like that, or like yours, I don't think there really is any answer. You kind of just muddle through it, and you try to find your pleasures where you can, but it's always hanging there, and it always will be. Honestly, it's just as tough now as it was at first, and sometimes it's even worse. You have to try to "be there" for everyone, of course, but they already know that. And you don't want to be annoying about it, as no matter what you do, it's a reminder of what's been lost. They're fortunate to have you around, and they know it, but they're not 100% and never will be, so sometimes it might get weird and uncomfortable. But it's not you, it's "it". You're clearly a good egg, and however it plays out, I think you'll handle it as best as can be expected.
 
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Nick_1989 said:
They are like family. My buddy wasn’t really close with his brother, so his parents like having me around to tell them stories about their son. Plus he is kind of weird. I enjoy hanging but I’m worried it’s impeding their ability to process / grieve.

Not a Troy Quan situation. He had a heart attack after drinking and taking an aderall. Just sort of a freak thing.
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Wtf how old was he? Physical condition?
 
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Lamont & Tonelli said:
This is the way. Start dropping hints, maybe 'forget' to zip your fly or buckle your belt a couple times, either she'll put the distance there or you can get some of that sweet sweet mourning MILF ass. Maybe the dad will want to watch.
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Oh do you need a tissue? Whoops, excuse me it appears my fly was left unzipped and my penis is hanging out.
 
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Juschippinyababe said:
You're a saint on eart brotherman. He must have been a great fucking dude if you're still taking one for the team for him. He's absolutely smiling down on ya and watching over you for taking care of his poor mom. You're a true brotherman, brotherman. God bless. Sorry for your loss.
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Best dude in the world. Blessed to know him for 25 years.
 
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Sorry man I’ve had a few friends get murdered or put away for life. But the two or three best friends I consider my family are still alive. If two of them specifically died I’d lose a giant piece of myself that would leave a hole for as long as I’d live.

You’re better than me I’m too much of a retard to do what you’re doing. If I die before I’d like to I’d want a friend like you.

NIGGER! NIGGER! NIGGER!

My little cousin who i was really close to died of a fent OD. He died 18 hours after our last convo. I wish I had done more and I never let him know that I loved him as much as I did. Actually I let him get robbed a few times thinking it would get him out of the life of crime because I knew he wasn’t build for it. But it just showed me he was softer and nicer than I thought he was. Never said a bad word about anyone. I get your pain nigger.
 
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I am sorry Colin, I was feeling pretty down when i wrote that.

How are you? Hope everything is alright. We have talked in a while now.
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Apologies, I went a little gay and overboard there. Hanging in there. Why do glum, chum?
 
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