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Got stuff?? Got hoarders in your family or struggle with hoarding or 'collections'?
We used to live in a small NYC apartment and had tons of stuff to declutter before our move. It was mostly my stuff of course. It had been a struggle of mine to declutter for years but thankfully the long-distance move lit the fire I needed. I got rid of bags and bags of stuff - all sent to charity shops. There was no time and I had no energy to sell the stuff.
I did try Marie Kondo's decluttering method but it doesn't really work. Keeping things that 'spark joy' doesn't address the items we keep because of our various emotional hangups (the main reason behind our keeping things we don't need). At least Marie taught me how to fold clothes better.
The only person who helped guide me through the emotional parting of objects was Tracy McCubbin and her great book Making Space, Clutter Free. It's a damn shame she is not as or more successful than Marie Kondo because her methods actually work. One of the biggest ways Tracy helped me was getting over the 'sunk cost fallacy' - that I had spent a lot of money on certain items so I should keep it.
And if you want to get inspired to clean your house just watch a few episodes of this show.
We used to live in a small NYC apartment and had tons of stuff to declutter before our move. It was mostly my stuff of course. It had been a struggle of mine to declutter for years but thankfully the long-distance move lit the fire I needed. I got rid of bags and bags of stuff - all sent to charity shops. There was no time and I had no energy to sell the stuff.
I did try Marie Kondo's decluttering method but it doesn't really work. Keeping things that 'spark joy' doesn't address the items we keep because of our various emotional hangups (the main reason behind our keeping things we don't need). At least Marie taught me how to fold clothes better.
The only person who helped guide me through the emotional parting of objects was Tracy McCubbin and her great book Making Space, Clutter Free. It's a damn shame she is not as or more successful than Marie Kondo because her methods actually work. One of the biggest ways Tracy helped me was getting over the 'sunk cost fallacy' - that I had spent a lot of money on certain items so I should keep it.
And if you want to get inspired to clean your house just watch a few episodes of this show.