Reminder: Older, balding, fatter child hasn't let go of his first, better wife and her child that's his child, child

[Clint Ruin]

It’s way easier than that. Pat never admits defeat. He clearly lost to PCJ. There is no other way to spin it. For him to have his kid in his life it would also mean he’d have to recognize his humiliating defeat. Him
talking about it or writing about it was his coping mechanism to release enough guilt to be able to accept the delusional world he lives in

I personally think that having visitation of the kid means he has to at least momentarily see the ex that he'll never get over, so he made the selfish choice. I feel like he abandoned his child because he'll never be able to look at or talk to Ade without a stabbing pain straight to his soul. If I'm right, then he's a massive vagina.