- Forum Clout
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My brother has seen some shit and has served since 1993 (active since 2001). He's actually more well adjusted now than when he was in his 20's and basically getting paid to bar b q and jump out of planes on weekends. Before 2001, he drank like a fish. He's a fucking teetotaller now and has been one for the past 15 years-- and he doesn't fuck around with drugs (it would completely fuck up his security clearance).Everyone I know who saw any action is now a broken, wife beating alcoholic. My one uncle actually doesn't beat his wife, but he can't walk on grass because the stress of landmines fucked his brain up. He's married to my dad's craziest sister and honestly, a punch in the head might do her some good.
Some people are just really good at compartmentalizing shit and they can function with no issues even after witnessing or being the victim of severe trauma.