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Note- I do not have herpes, but I know several people who do (both men & women) & was considering dating someone with Herpes.
1) They have antiviral pills you take to limit the frequency and durations of breakouts. For most people with herpes, they can feel an outbreak coming a couple of days prior- you take three of the antivirals on the first day you have this feeling and then one per day for like the next 7 days. In most instances, when you have outbreaks and follow this protocol it only lasts a couple of days and is much less severe.
2) You will get herpes if you are intimate w/ someone who has the virus for an extended period of time, no matter what. You don’t take the anti-viral every day. You only take it when you feel an outbreak coming on. But the viral shedding starts days prior to someone even feeling they might have an outbreak soon. Condoms also do not stop the spread of herpes, because most men actually have genital herpes on their inner thigh, testicles, general pubic region & not specifically the shaft of the penis.
3) If she gives you herpes & you don’t marry her, this will impact your relationships with every future woman. In most states it’s illegal to not tell your sexual partners about your condition. You can get sued in every state for transmitting herpes to someone who didn’t know you were positive for the virus. Personally, I feel lucky I’m happily married & do not need to worry about any of this shit again- I made it through without anything that’s incurable (same with the misses) so I never had to have the conversation with sexual partners. I‘m a fairly smooth guy, but I imagine telling someone you have an incurable condition where the skin on and around your genitals is prone to extremely painful blistering at least twice a year is a hard sell.
4) You won’t get credit from her for accepting her condition past the first week. For every guy who turned her down because of the herp, there are 4 who didn’t give a shit.
Good luck.
1) They have antiviral pills you take to limit the frequency and durations of breakouts. For most people with herpes, they can feel an outbreak coming a couple of days prior- you take three of the antivirals on the first day you have this feeling and then one per day for like the next 7 days. In most instances, when you have outbreaks and follow this protocol it only lasts a couple of days and is much less severe.
2) You will get herpes if you are intimate w/ someone who has the virus for an extended period of time, no matter what. You don’t take the anti-viral every day. You only take it when you feel an outbreak coming on. But the viral shedding starts days prior to someone even feeling they might have an outbreak soon. Condoms also do not stop the spread of herpes, because most men actually have genital herpes on their inner thigh, testicles, general pubic region & not specifically the shaft of the penis.
3) If she gives you herpes & you don’t marry her, this will impact your relationships with every future woman. In most states it’s illegal to not tell your sexual partners about your condition. You can get sued in every state for transmitting herpes to someone who didn’t know you were positive for the virus. Personally, I feel lucky I’m happily married & do not need to worry about any of this shit again- I made it through without anything that’s incurable (same with the misses) so I never had to have the conversation with sexual partners. I‘m a fairly smooth guy, but I imagine telling someone you have an incurable condition where the skin on and around your genitals is prone to extremely painful blistering at least twice a year is a hard sell.
4) You won’t get credit from her for accepting her condition past the first week. For every guy who turned her down because of the herp, there are 4 who didn’t give a shit.
Good luck.
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Very helpful. Especially the last point.
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I said we need to talk and she called me. I explained what I'm feeling to her. She seemed chill with it. I felt awful. But it still feels so good to rip that bandaid off.
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I can never tell if I have an STD, or if I just beat my dick so much it leaves a mark
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I think I definitely have face herpes... unless they are pimples on the lips. Fawk.
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Psst genital herpes can spread even with a condom. Also consider the fact that she probably blew the dude that gave her the herp as well so she’s probably got oral herpes to that could bubble up before either of you realize and 1 kiss and you’re fucked. Also, have fun playing Russian roulette any time you go down on her.
Chances are astronomically high that you WILL catch the shit the longer you’re with her. And then what’s to stop her from dumping your ass for whatever stupid reason in the future? Now you’re stuck with the herpes and having to look like a fucking moron to any women you see in the future “so I have herpes, but it’s not what you think! I was just being really nice to my last girlfriend!”
… not to scare you or anything
Chances are astronomically high that you WILL catch the shit the longer you’re with her. And then what’s to stop her from dumping your ass for whatever stupid reason in the future? Now you’re stuck with the herpes and having to look like a fucking moron to any women you see in the future “so I have herpes, but it’s not what you think! I was just being really nice to my last girlfriend!”
… not to scare you or anything
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Love me some Bukowski. Read Fante too if you haven't yet.
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Coincidentally the main character (Bukowski's alter ego) of the book i qouted above mentioned Fante as his favorite author, have to check him out next, love the honest to the point rawness of Bukowski's writing, so if Fante was his Idol i expect something truly special.
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I was patiently waiting for this. TYFYS.
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Fante and Bukowski were my dudes in college while I manipulated and plowed my way through endless amounts of pussy. Highly recommended.
It sucks, avoid it if you can. I think there is a high risk that your kids will be born with it too.
I'd say get out before it is too late, if that is too much, read up about valtrex and make sure she's on it, but really I don't think it'll be worth it in the long run.
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My wife watches some show with Steve Martin and Martin Short called Only Murders in the Building (or something like that). Rappaport plays a cop and one of the final scenes from the final episode of the most recent season had some chick climbing on and kissing him. I screamed at the TV, like a nigger in a theater, "No! Oh God, don't!"
Had to explain to my wife the outburst, and when she saw the pictures of his mouth sores, she understood. Don't fuck with the herp, dude. Let her go infect some other sucker.
Had to explain to my wife the outburst, and when she saw the pictures of his mouth sores, she understood. Don't fuck with the herp, dude. Let her go infect some other sucker.