Can I (39, M) date a 23 year old (23, F)? (Gassers, TW: dating and sex talk)

[Harry Powell]

A while back I was talking to this 23 year old. I asked her out for sushi and was GHOSTED.

Today I got a message from her with her phone number.

In the interim time period I had felt like a real creep, age gap was way too much, and I was kinda glad she didn’t reply. But now that she did I’ve been at half mast all morning.

Can I take this woman out, or am I being a ghoulish abomination preying upon youth, like that vampire Anthony Cumia?

Also there’s no way I’m wearing a condom or pulling out if it all goes well - safe isn’t my speed - so if I knock her up how humiliated will I be by the age gap? She looks like an e-girl with dyed hair and tattoos.

 

[Patrick O'Neal]

Someone's offered me a million dollars. Should I take it, or would that make me seem greedy?

What do you guys think?

 

[Consensual Rapist]

If you feel like you’re creep now, it won’t change if you get with this chick. That feeling will kill the mood down the road.
Best to get with a woman who’s age you feel comfortable being around.

 

[ShutYourCakeHorn]

It's destined to not work out if you even have to ask all these questions, and more specifically if you have to ask this place.

 

[Harry Powell]

If you feel like you’re creep now, it won’t change if you get with this chick. That feeling will kill the mood down the road.
Best to get with a woman who’s age you feel comfortable being around.

The problem with that, sweetie, is that they all look busted at 40 and don’t make my pants tight.

But yes I think you’re correct. I like this chick but I’m not naïve enough to think this age gap is workable and I’m pretty sure I would be extremely embarrassed introducing her to anyone. She’s closer in age to my son than me.

 

[Harry Powell]

It's destined to not work out if you even have to ask all these questions, and more specifically if you have to ask this place.

Unfortunately, this place has slowly replaced everything else in my life and now you guys are all I have left.

 

[guest]

Yep. and so can I.

PS: you should absolutely knock her up. Be the future.

 

[Dennyislife]

It's like dating someone who speaks a language you only have a basic understanding of. Don't do it. Smash and move on by all means but dating? Uwot

 

[Harry Powell]

Yep. and so can I.

Give me some details brotherman.

 

[Harry Powell]

It's like dating someone who speaks a language you only have a basic understanding of. Don't do it

But Dan and Flavia made that work!

 

[guest]

Give me some details brotherman.

I am so ready to fuck a young girl and turn her into my bride. I have to shake off this covid rust but I'm eyeing up 20-somethings. Stupid cow-eyed amateurs. There's no competition anymore. Everybody's gay.

 

[LockedHDD__Pot]

if you're gonna go with that age gap then you need a hot gal you thinks she's more intlligent than her friends (tiktok is stupid, etc), but if she ever tries to defend how insightful you are to her friends then don't engage; just say something like 'no, what's important is I make her come like an epileptic rattlesnake'... it'll only last til her next scheduled crisis (5-8years), but why not?

 

[UnPRePared]

I'm going to sound like a bit of a hypocrite here, Lad - Gosia and I have a nearly twenty year age gap - but it comes down to what you want, simple as that.

Do you want an actual relationship or just to get your dick wet?

If it's the former, you both have to be open minded enough to value your differences just as much as your commonalities, and learn from each other. If you can't, it's DOA. Mal and I would have never made it work this long without that understanding.

If it's just to get laid, well... Accept how you are going to look to others, be a man and stay honest with her, and have your fun. But trust me, I know I still get side-eyes when I'm out with my woman, regardless of it being genuine love. They can blow it out their ass.

 

[EraGodless]

If you feel like you’re creep now, it won’t change if you get with this chick. That feeling will kill the mood down the road.
Best to get with a woman who’s age you feel comfortable being around.

What kind of fucking rapist are you?

 

[chocolatehellhole]

She is menstruating at that age, so yes. It is appropriate to fuck. (Boq, take note)

 

[guest]

You can turn her into whatever you want at that age. Mold her. Become a sculptor of minds. As the male, it's your province.

 

[Libby Son Of Loin]

Fuck her, get nudes, and post on forums pls

 

[guest]

Fuck her, get nudes, and post on forums pls

YES! We can use your good fortune to jerk off to!

 

[Lucky Buddha Beer]

The problem with that, sweetie, is that they all look busted at 40 and don’t make my pants tight.

But yes I think you’re correct. I like this chick but I’m not naïve enough to think this age gap is workable and I’m pretty sure I would be extremely embarrassed introducing her to anyone. She’s closer in age to my son than me.

They can be 30-35 and look good. Doesn't have to be low 20s...

Chasing young girls ultimately is not fulfilling. Unless you are low functioning mentally, but even those people get burnt out.

Also, what kind of a almost 40 years old do you look like? Cause you could look 28 ok, or you look 50 and this girl knows it and is just getting a free meal out of your dumbass.

 

[chocolatehellhole]

Wait a minute. How fat is this girl? What kind of quality control are we talking here?