Would you date someone who had a kid already?

[NoBacon]

This question assumes they are a cool person and good looking. Obviously if they weren’t both of these things it’s a no brainer and a hard no.

 

[johnnynoname]

absolutely not

 

[NoBacon]

absolutely not

Never?

 

[johnnynoname]

Never?

i've avoided it


as an epilogue (don't you dare) to my previous post, I like to date a woman my own age with no kids


do you know what kind of absolute weirdo a woman is if she is in her 40's, semi attractive, and didn't have a kid?

 

[Turk February]

Does it count if they crushed its head with a knitting needle and threw it in the toilet? No, I'm not saying you.

 

[Lamont & Tonelli]

Have done, ultimately not worth it (for a potential mate, just fun 'n' fucking can be great) unless she's single through no fault of her own and/or the kid is young enough to imprint on you. Not judging, just gotta look out for Number One, yaddadadig?

do you know what kind of absolute weirdo a woman is if she is in her 40's, semi attractive, and didn't have a kid?

This guy fawkin gets it.

 

[NoBacon]

i've avoided it


as an epilogue (don't you dare) to my previous post, I like to date a woman my own age with no kids


do you know what kind of absolute weirdo a woman is if she is in her 40's, semi attractive, and didn't have a kid?

I’m 34 and I want someone my own age or within a few years either side, it’s pretty difficult to find anyone who isn’t mental and childless. It’s probably impossible at 40.

I’ve never tried it, though. Probably weird with the dad seeing it at weekends and things, I’m likely not mature enough for it.

 

[johnnynoname]

attractive woman in her 40's with no kids means (either/or):
- MULTIPLE abortions (especially in urban areas)
- our lord Jesus Christ gave her a polluted uterus because even he knows she' s no good


RED FLAG

 

[FalconeFanClub]

Ok fine, I’ll take your mom out. See what I did there?

 

[BonnieMcFarlaneMe2]

I thought about making this thread a while ago but saying black kid but I think I could guess what this forum would say.

 

[BUBBLER]

If she was hot and not present in the kids life sure.

I'm not babysitting some other niggas spawn

 

[NoBacon's Aborted Child]

Does it count if they crushed its head with a knitting needle and threw it in the toilet? No, I'm not saying you.

NBACDF is in control

 

[NoBacon's Aborted Child]

Apply the pincer maneuver!

- Dada to the doctor

 

[WifeStoreWill]

I’d love to say no but as others have pointed out, it’s probably next to impossible now that I’m in my mid 40’s.

At this point I guess I’d have to compromise with: has kids but they are already grown up and out of the house or don’t live with her because they live with their dad.

 

[Ronnie G]

Brotherman, take the plunge into that finely aged puss! You're not promising to spend the rest of your life with her. Have a heart and make it clear up front that there will always be a ceiling on the relationship. If she's not into it, keep it moving; if she is, have fun for a while.

 

[PickleRickle]

Continuing someone elses save file? No.

 

[Turry Precision ™®©]

a no brainer

@NoBacon's Aborted Child I'm so sorry

 

[BonnieMcFarlaneMe2]

Apply the pincer maneuver!

- Dada to the doctor

Fawkin brootal!

 

[BUBBLER]

I’d love to say no but as others have pointed out, it’s probably next to impossible now that I’m in my mid 40’s.

At this point I guess I’d have to compromise with: has kids but they are already grown up and out of the house or don’t live with her because they live with their dad.

Kids grown up but not an old hag? Some dumb slut who got knocked up at 20

Yeah count me in

 

[WifeStoreWill]

Kids grown up but not an old hag? Some dumb slut who got knocked up at 20

Yeah count me in

It’s that or a 40 year old who never had kids. It’s a tough one man.

MAYBE, I could be convinced to deal with a chick who had a younger kid if the dad was dead. She’d have to be pretty much perfect in every other way though.

Most likely I would just never date again if I became single. That seems easier.