When I was 14, I saw this 9-10 year old Yemeni kid down and out on his luck. I used to play soccer with a bunch of other Yemenis, so I told him to tag along with me, I'd introduce him to a bunch of cool dudes and we will play some ball.
Fast forward 2-3 weeks. This little dipshit was trying to boss me around in one particular game. Imagine a 10 year old, literally smacking you in your forehead because you ddint mark a guy during a corner kick, and his header results in the winning goal?
Well, before I could react to him smacking me in the forehead, I am knocked the fuck out.
When I came to...I realize this other Yemeni dude on the field, probably 20-21, saw the look in my eye when he smacked me, and the split second before I could send the kid (who I invited to the game) to intensive care...and tackled me from behind and knocked me unconscious. When others confronted him he was like "dats my cousin, no way im letting that Somalian touch him" etc.
My first experience of Arabs by default, mistaking kindness for weakness....Needless to say, the little kid got one over me that day, but he never dared return to the field not knowing what I or my siblings would do for revenge.
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That betrayal and assault was such a life altering lesson for me, that I now actively seek out submissive/docile people, so I can avoid them, If you can't look me in the eye the first time we meet, I will not feel sorry for you...in fact, I will feel threatened and you will be in big trouble/regret. I literally saw the same submissive look in one Nova Scotian guy renting a dorm, and I instantly knew he was a duplicitious POS, so I made sure to cover all my tracks for the moment he tries to fuck with me...and when he did, I had a dossier built on him (he 'adopted' this slow adult and was receiving his disability checks as his guardian...and I reported him to crimestoppers for sexually molesting the retard...which was pure speculation but the type of shit cops here look into thoroughly. He was also selling drugs, so I told them about that. And he threatened to have me murdered once, lol. This harmless closeted dude seethed at me so much because he couldnt get one over me. (Tried to rip me off and charge me first/last rent for a month-to-month dorm rental, like Im some rube not aware of shit).